There was a young man who had a group of friends who were not very good. They took him in a direction which was not pleasing to his father. Finally one day his father said to him, “Look, my son, get rid of your friends. I’m going to teach you the meaning of friendship.”
The son obeyed and abandoned his friends. His father took him to the back of the house, and there he killed a sheep. He slit the throat of the sheep, took its bloody carcass, and he put it into a huge sack. One could see bloodstains soaking through the canvas cloth.
“Now my son,” he said, “You know Ahmet who lives down the road. We’re the best of friends, as you know. Go and bring this sack to him, and tell him that your father accidentally killed someone. And ask him to help dispose the body.”
The young man took the sack, and carried it down the road to Ahmet’s house. He knocked, and Ahmet opened the door. “I’m the son of Habib,” the young man announced. “There’s been a terrible accident. My father has killed someone. The body is in this sack. My father asks that you help him dispose of this body, please!” “Wait a minute,” Ahmet said, and went back into his house.
Soon he returned with a sack filled with gold coins. Handing them over, he said, “Here take this to your father. With this money he will surely be able to get someone to dispose of this body.” The son went back to his father and told him the story. His father said, “My son, this is half a friend.” Then he continued, “Now take this sack and tell the same story to Hussein who lives on the other side of town. You remember him, we were once very good friends. But lately we’ve disagreed on a lot of things, and actually in the last several months we haven’t even spoken to each other. But take it to him.”
He took the sack, walked across town, and knocked on Hussein’s door. When the door opened, the young man said, “I’m the son of Habib. There’s been a terrible accident. My father killed someone. The body is in this sack. He asked if you could please help him dispose of the body.” Hussein looked at the boy, grabbed the sack, and pushing him away, said, “Tell your father I’m not interested in him. And you, get out of here. Don’t ever tell anyone you’ve seen me!” He slammed the door shut, but he kept the bloody sack. The young man went home. He told his father the story of what had happened with Hussein. His father smiled and said, “That my son, is a friend.”
May 31, 2010
May 28, 2010
Sports car Vs Quran
A young man was getting ready to graduate college. For many months he had admired a beautiful sports car in a dealer's showroom, and knowing his father could well afford it, he told him that was all he wanted.
As Graduation Day approached, the young man waited signs that his father had purchased the car. Finally, on the morning of his graduation his father called him into his private study.
His father told him how proud he was to have such a fine son, and told him how much he loved him. He handed his son a beautiful wrapped gift box.
Curious, but somewhat disappointed the young man opened the box and found a lovely, leather-bound Quran. Angrily, he raised his voice at his father and said "With all your money you give me a Quran?" and stormed out of the house, leaving the holy book.
Many years passed and the young man was very successful in business. He had a beautiful home and wonderful family, but realized his father was very old, and thought perhaps he should go to him. He had not seen him since that graduation day.
Before he could make arrangements, he received a telegram telling him his father had passed away, and willed all of his possessions to his son. He needed to come home immediately and take care things.
When he arrived at his father's house, sudden sadness and regret filled his heart. He began to search his father's important papers and saw the still new Quran, just as he had left it years ago. With tears, he opened the Quran and began to turn the pages.
As he read those words, a car key dropped from an envelope taped behind the Quran.
It had a tag with the dealer's name, the same dealer who had the sports car he had desired.
On the tag was the date of his graduation, and the words...PAID IN FULL.
As Graduation Day approached, the young man waited signs that his father had purchased the car. Finally, on the morning of his graduation his father called him into his private study.
His father told him how proud he was to have such a fine son, and told him how much he loved him. He handed his son a beautiful wrapped gift box.
Curious, but somewhat disappointed the young man opened the box and found a lovely, leather-bound Quran. Angrily, he raised his voice at his father and said "With all your money you give me a Quran?" and stormed out of the house, leaving the holy book.
Many years passed and the young man was very successful in business. He had a beautiful home and wonderful family, but realized his father was very old, and thought perhaps he should go to him. He had not seen him since that graduation day.
Before he could make arrangements, he received a telegram telling him his father had passed away, and willed all of his possessions to his son. He needed to come home immediately and take care things.
When he arrived at his father's house, sudden sadness and regret filled his heart. He began to search his father's important papers and saw the still new Quran, just as he had left it years ago. With tears, he opened the Quran and began to turn the pages.
As he read those words, a car key dropped from an envelope taped behind the Quran.
It had a tag with the dealer's name, the same dealer who had the sports car he had desired.
On the tag was the date of his graduation, and the words...PAID IN FULL.
May 27, 2010
You shouldn't believe in luck charms
It was a beautiful spring day, and Yasmeen was playing outside with some other children at the park. Yasmeen was homeschooled, and she had a Muslim friend named Hala. They were both on the swing, when Yasmeen noticed some of the kids crawling in the grass. They looked like cats searching for mice! Thinking that they were picking flowers, Yasmeen said, "Hala, why don't we pick some pretty flowers for our moms?" Hala noticed the other kids too, and then without a word they ran to join the others.
When they reached the other kids, they found out that the children weren't picking flowers. They were in a bed of clovers looking for four-leaf clovers. "What do you want with those? Those aren't flowers!" remarked Yasmeen in confusion. But one of the boys laughed and said, " Yasmeen, don't you know how hard it is to find a four-leaf clo ver? If you do they bring you good luck!" "Wow, how neat! Yasmeen then exclaimed. She too began to crawl with the others. Hala just frowned and said, "Yasmeen... you really shouldn't..." but her friend cut her off before she could finish what she had to say. "I found one! Now I'm going to have good luck!" Yasmeen shouted.
The next week all sorts of good things started to happen to Yasmeen. She found her favorite sweater, she got a new dress from her mother, and she won a math contest at school. Yet she gave the credit to the four-leaf clover, rather than Allah Subhana Wa Taala and her own hard work.
When Yasmeen noticed the green plant was gone the next week she became very upset. She beganto search everywhere but it wasn't anywhere to be found. That wasn't the end of her troubles though. She broke a crystal glass and some plates. She tripped over her book bag and stubbed her toe. She even lost her new sweater. Devastated, she called Hala and told her of her bad day.
"Oh Yasmeen! Haven't you learned your lesson yet?" was her friends reply to her awful day. "Yeah, you should put your four-leaf clover in a treasure chest." Yasmeen said, despite her tears. "Anyway, I was trying to tell you that clovers don't give you luck. There is no such thing! Everything happens through Allah's Subhana Wa Taala will. Did you know luck charms are haraam?" Yasmeen gasped in reply, so Hala continued saying, "You should not believe in luck charms, and that they can bring you good or bad luck. Everything really only happen through Allah's Subhana Wa Taala will! Believing in luck charms is like not believing in Allah Subhana Wa Taala ! Yasmeen just gasped again.
"Then she ended the phone call by saying, "I didn't realize it was that serious! Well, from now on I'll work hard and never use a luck charm again!" And she kept her promise after that.
When they reached the other kids, they found out that the children weren't picking flowers. They were in a bed of clovers looking for four-leaf clovers. "What do you want with those? Those aren't flowers!" remarked Yasmeen in confusion. But one of the boys laughed and said, " Yasmeen, don't you know how hard it is to find a four-leaf clo ver? If you do they bring you good luck!" "Wow, how neat! Yasmeen then exclaimed. She too began to crawl with the others. Hala just frowned and said, "Yasmeen... you really shouldn't..." but her friend cut her off before she could finish what she had to say. "I found one! Now I'm going to have good luck!" Yasmeen shouted.
The next week all sorts of good things started to happen to Yasmeen. She found her favorite sweater, she got a new dress from her mother, and she won a math contest at school. Yet she gave the credit to the four-leaf clover, rather than Allah Subhana Wa Taala and her own hard work.
When Yasmeen noticed the green plant was gone the next week she became very upset. She beganto search everywhere but it wasn't anywhere to be found. That wasn't the end of her troubles though. She broke a crystal glass and some plates. She tripped over her book bag and stubbed her toe. She even lost her new sweater. Devastated, she called Hala and told her of her bad day.
"Oh Yasmeen! Haven't you learned your lesson yet?" was her friends reply to her awful day. "Yeah, you should put your four-leaf clover in a treasure chest." Yasmeen said, despite her tears. "Anyway, I was trying to tell you that clovers don't give you luck. There is no such thing! Everything happens through Allah's Subhana Wa Taala will. Did you know luck charms are haraam?" Yasmeen gasped in reply, so Hala continued saying, "You should not believe in luck charms, and that they can bring you good or bad luck. Everything really only happen through Allah's Subhana Wa Taala will! Believing in luck charms is like not believing in Allah Subhana Wa Taala ! Yasmeen just gasped again.
"Then she ended the phone call by saying, "I didn't realize it was that serious! Well, from now on I'll work hard and never use a luck charm again!" And she kept her promise after that.
May 23, 2010
To Judge or Not to Judge
One night there was a woman at the airport who had to wait for several hours before catching her next flight. While she waited she bought a book and a pack of biscuits to spend the time. She looked for a place to sit and waited.
She was deep into her book, when suddenly she realized that there was a young man sitting next to her who was stretching his hand, with no concern whatsoever, and grabbing the pack of cookies lying between them. He started to eat them one by one.
Not wanting to make a fuss about it she decided to ignore him. The woman, slightly bothered, ate the cookies and watched the clock, while the young and shameless thief of biscuits was also finishing them. The woman started to get really angry at this point and thought "If I wasn't such a good and educated person, I would have given this daring man a black eye by now."
Every time she ate a biscuit, he had one too. The dialogue between their eyes continued and when only one biscuit was left, she wondered what was he going to do. Softly and with a nervous smile, the young man grabbed the last biscuit and broke it in two. He offered one half to the woman while he ate the other half.
Briskly she took the biscuit and thought, "What an insolent man! How uneducated! He didn't even thank me!" She had never met anybody so fresh and sighed relieved to hear her flight announced. She grabbed her bags and went towards the boarding gate refusing to look back to where that insolent thief was seated.
After boarding the plane and nicely seated, she looked for her book which was nearly finished by now. While looking into her bag she was totally surprised to find her pack of biscuits nearly intact. "If my biscuits are here", she thought feeling terribly, "those others were his and he tried to share them with me." Too late to apologize to the young man, she realized with pain, that it was her who had been insolent, uneducated and a thief, and not him.
How many times in our lives, had we know with certainty that something happened in a certain way, only to discover later that it wasn't true?
No matter how great a man's evil, in his heart there is a seed of goodness. If only we can reach it and make it grow, it will bear fruit.
How many times has our lack of trust within us made us judge other people unfairly with our conceited ideas, often far away from reality?
She was deep into her book, when suddenly she realized that there was a young man sitting next to her who was stretching his hand, with no concern whatsoever, and grabbing the pack of cookies lying between them. He started to eat them one by one.
Not wanting to make a fuss about it she decided to ignore him. The woman, slightly bothered, ate the cookies and watched the clock, while the young and shameless thief of biscuits was also finishing them. The woman started to get really angry at this point and thought "If I wasn't such a good and educated person, I would have given this daring man a black eye by now."
Every time she ate a biscuit, he had one too. The dialogue between their eyes continued and when only one biscuit was left, she wondered what was he going to do. Softly and with a nervous smile, the young man grabbed the last biscuit and broke it in two. He offered one half to the woman while he ate the other half.
Briskly she took the biscuit and thought, "What an insolent man! How uneducated! He didn't even thank me!" She had never met anybody so fresh and sighed relieved to hear her flight announced. She grabbed her bags and went towards the boarding gate refusing to look back to where that insolent thief was seated.
After boarding the plane and nicely seated, she looked for her book which was nearly finished by now. While looking into her bag she was totally surprised to find her pack of biscuits nearly intact. "If my biscuits are here", she thought feeling terribly, "those others were his and he tried to share them with me." Too late to apologize to the young man, she realized with pain, that it was her who had been insolent, uneducated and a thief, and not him.
How many times in our lives, had we know with certainty that something happened in a certain way, only to discover later that it wasn't true?
No matter how great a man's evil, in his heart there is a seed of goodness. If only we can reach it and make it grow, it will bear fruit.
How many times has our lack of trust within us made us judge other people unfairly with our conceited ideas, often far away from reality?
May 22, 2010
People are to be loved
While a man was polishing his new car, his 4 year old son picked stone and scratched lines on the side of car. In anger the man took the child's hand and hit it many times, not realising he was using a wrench.
At the hospital the child lost all his fingers due to multiple fractures. When the child saw his father with painful eyes he asked "Dad when will my fingers grow back?" Man was so hurt and speechless. He went back to car and kicked it many times. Devasted by his own actions..sitting in front of the car he looked at the scratches, child had written "LOVE YOU DAD"..Next day the man committed suicide..
Always remember - Things are to be used and People are to be loved...but the problems in today's world is that..People are used and Things are loved.
At the hospital the child lost all his fingers due to multiple fractures. When the child saw his father with painful eyes he asked "Dad when will my fingers grow back?" Man was so hurt and speechless. He went back to car and kicked it many times. Devasted by his own actions..sitting in front of the car he looked at the scratches, child had written "LOVE YOU DAD"..Next day the man committed suicide..
Always remember - Things are to be used and People are to be loved...but the problems in today's world is that..People are used and Things are loved.
May 21, 2010
May 19, 2010
Essay from a child
A teacher from Primary School asks her students to write a essay about
what they would like God to do for them...
At the end of the day while marking the essays, she read one that made her
very emotional. Her husband, that had just walked in saw her crying and asked her:
- What happened?
She answered
- Read this. It's one of my students essays
Oh God, tonight I ask you something very special: Make me into a
television. I want to take its place. Live like the TV in my house. Have
my own special place, And have my family around ME. To be taken seriously
when I talk.... I want to be the center of attention and be
heard without interruptions or questions. I want to receive the same
special care that the TV receives when it is not working. Have the company
of my dad when he arrives home from work, even when he is tired.
And I want my mom to want me when she is sad and upset, instead of
ignoring me... And... I want my brothers to fight to be with me... I want
to feel that family just leaves everything aside, every now and then, just
to spend some time with me. And last but not least make it
that I can make them all happy and entertain them...
Lord I don't ask you for much... I just want to live like every TV
At that moment the husband said:- 'My God, poor kid. What horrible parents!
She looked up at him and said:
'That essay is our son's!!!
what they would like God to do for them...
At the end of the day while marking the essays, she read one that made her
very emotional. Her husband, that had just walked in saw her crying and asked her:
- What happened?
She answered
- Read this. It's one of my students essays
Oh God, tonight I ask you something very special: Make me into a
television. I want to take its place. Live like the TV in my house. Have
my own special place, And have my family around ME. To be taken seriously
when I talk.... I want to be the center of attention and be
heard without interruptions or questions. I want to receive the same
special care that the TV receives when it is not working. Have the company
of my dad when he arrives home from work, even when he is tired.
And I want my mom to want me when she is sad and upset, instead of
ignoring me... And... I want my brothers to fight to be with me... I want
to feel that family just leaves everything aside, every now and then, just
to spend some time with me. And last but not least make it
that I can make them all happy and entertain them...
Lord I don't ask you for much... I just want to live like every TV
At that moment the husband said:- 'My God, poor kid. What horrible parents!
She looked up at him and said:
'That essay is our son's!!!
Bring me proof
A man from a respectable background came to Balkh which is situated in the south of Iran, accompanied by his wife and daughters. Shortly after their arrival the man fell ill and later died, leaving his wife and daughters. Without his support they became poor and suffered. So fearing the mockery of enemies, she fled Balkh with her daughters to Samarkand.
On the day she arrived the weather was very cold, so she left her daughters in a Masjid and went out in search of food. She passed by two groups of people. One was gathered around a Muslim who was the Sheikh and the other group around a Zoroastrian (Majusi) who was the security officer of the city.
She first went to the Muslim Sheikh and described her situation saying, "I am a woman of a respectable family, with daughters whom I have left in the local Masjid and I have come in search of food." He asked her, "Bring me proof that you are from a respectable family." She replied, "I am a stranger in this town and therefore do not know anyone to testify for me." She departed from him brokenhearted. She then went to the Zoroastrian and explained her situation to him, telling him about her noble background and her orphaned daughters who were, waiting her return in the local Masjid. She also mentioned to him how the Muslim Sheikh had treated her. The Zoroastrian stood up and sent some womenfolk to bring her daughters and took all of them to his house. There he showered them with honour and generosity. He fed them fine food and clothed them in rich garments.
That night the Muslim Sheikh saw in a dream the Day of Resurrection and the banners were unfurled around Holy Prophet Muhammad (Peace be Upon him). Ahead of him, was a green palace made of emeralds, its balconies of pearls and rubies and domes of pearls and corals. He asked Holy Prophet Muhammad (Peace be Upon him), "Messenger of Allah, for whom is this palace?" Holy Prophet Muhammad (Peace be Upon him) replied, "For a Muslim." The Muslim Sheikh replied, "I am a Muslim!" Holy Prophet Muhammad (Peace be Upon him) said, "Prove to me that you are a Muslim?" At that, the Muslim Sheikh was dumbstruck. Holy Prophet Muhammad (Peace be Upon him) then said, "You asked a woman to produce proof of her respectability and therefore my question to you is, can you produce proof that you are a Muslim?" At this point the Muslim Sheikh felt remorse about his treatment towards the woman and her orphaned daughters.
In the morning, he immediately set out to find the woman. He learnt she was staying with the Zoroastrian and so called for him. When the Zoroastrian arrived, the Muslim Sheikh requested that he sends the woman and her daughters to him. The Zoroastrian replied, "Under no circumstance! I have received great blessings from her." The Muslim Sheikh said, "Take a thousand dinars from me and bring them to me." Zoroastrian shouted, "Impossible! The one who showed you the palace in your dream has made it (the palace) for me. Are you surprised because I am not a Muslim? By Allah (Subhana Wa Taala), I did not sleep last night, before I and my family accepted Islam at that noble woman's hand and I dreamt something similar to what you dreamt; Holy Prophet Muhammad (Peace be Upon him) asked me, "Is that noble woman and her daughters with you?" I replied: "Yes, Messenger of Allah." Holy Prophet Muhammad (Peace be Upon him) said, "This palace is for you and your family. Allah (Subhana Wa Taala) created you a believer in eternity." At that the Muslim Sheikh remained sorrowful and grieved for the missed opportunity of earning a lofty position in Paradise, due to his neglect of the widowed woman and her daughters.
Holy Prophet Muhammad (Peace be Upon him) has said, "The one who strives on behalf of the widow and the needy is like a warrior in the path of Allah". (Bukhari and Muslim) May Allah guide us to what is right for indeed, He is Generous, the most Kind, and the most Merciful!
On the day she arrived the weather was very cold, so she left her daughters in a Masjid and went out in search of food. She passed by two groups of people. One was gathered around a Muslim who was the Sheikh and the other group around a Zoroastrian (Majusi) who was the security officer of the city.
She first went to the Muslim Sheikh and described her situation saying, "I am a woman of a respectable family, with daughters whom I have left in the local Masjid and I have come in search of food." He asked her, "Bring me proof that you are from a respectable family." She replied, "I am a stranger in this town and therefore do not know anyone to testify for me." She departed from him brokenhearted. She then went to the Zoroastrian and explained her situation to him, telling him about her noble background and her orphaned daughters who were, waiting her return in the local Masjid. She also mentioned to him how the Muslim Sheikh had treated her. The Zoroastrian stood up and sent some womenfolk to bring her daughters and took all of them to his house. There he showered them with honour and generosity. He fed them fine food and clothed them in rich garments.
That night the Muslim Sheikh saw in a dream the Day of Resurrection and the banners were unfurled around Holy Prophet Muhammad (Peace be Upon him). Ahead of him, was a green palace made of emeralds, its balconies of pearls and rubies and domes of pearls and corals. He asked Holy Prophet Muhammad (Peace be Upon him), "Messenger of Allah, for whom is this palace?" Holy Prophet Muhammad (Peace be Upon him) replied, "For a Muslim." The Muslim Sheikh replied, "I am a Muslim!" Holy Prophet Muhammad (Peace be Upon him) said, "Prove to me that you are a Muslim?" At that, the Muslim Sheikh was dumbstruck. Holy Prophet Muhammad (Peace be Upon him) then said, "You asked a woman to produce proof of her respectability and therefore my question to you is, can you produce proof that you are a Muslim?" At this point the Muslim Sheikh felt remorse about his treatment towards the woman and her orphaned daughters.
In the morning, he immediately set out to find the woman. He learnt she was staying with the Zoroastrian and so called for him. When the Zoroastrian arrived, the Muslim Sheikh requested that he sends the woman and her daughters to him. The Zoroastrian replied, "Under no circumstance! I have received great blessings from her." The Muslim Sheikh said, "Take a thousand dinars from me and bring them to me." Zoroastrian shouted, "Impossible! The one who showed you the palace in your dream has made it (the palace) for me. Are you surprised because I am not a Muslim? By Allah (Subhana Wa Taala), I did not sleep last night, before I and my family accepted Islam at that noble woman's hand and I dreamt something similar to what you dreamt; Holy Prophet Muhammad (Peace be Upon him) asked me, "Is that noble woman and her daughters with you?" I replied: "Yes, Messenger of Allah." Holy Prophet Muhammad (Peace be Upon him) said, "This palace is for you and your family. Allah (Subhana Wa Taala) created you a believer in eternity." At that the Muslim Sheikh remained sorrowful and grieved for the missed opportunity of earning a lofty position in Paradise, due to his neglect of the widowed woman and her daughters.
Holy Prophet Muhammad (Peace be Upon him) has said, "The one who strives on behalf of the widow and the needy is like a warrior in the path of Allah". (Bukhari and Muslim) May Allah guide us to what is right for indeed, He is Generous, the most Kind, and the most Merciful!
May 17, 2010
A better solution
A worried woman went to her gynecologist and said: 'Doctor, I have a serious problem and desperately need your help!
My baby is not even 1 yr. old and I'm pregnant again.I don't want kids so close together.'So the doctor said: 'Ok, and what do you want me to do?'She said: 'I want you to end my pregnancy, and I'm counting on your help with this.'The doctor thought for a little, and after some silence he said to the lady: 'I think I have a better solution for your problem. It's less dangerous for you, too.'She smiled, thinking that the doctor was going to accept her request.Then he continued: 'You see, in order for you not to have to take care of 2 babies at the same time, let's kill the one in your arms. This way, you could rest some before the other one is born.
If we're going to kill one of them, it doesn't matter which one it is.There would be no risk for your body if you chose the one in your arms.The lady was horrified and said: 'No doctor! How terrible! It's a crime to kill a child!'I agree', the doctor replied. 'But you seemed to be ok with it, so I thought maybe that was the best solution. The doctor smiled, realizing that he had made his point.
He convinced the mom that there is no difference in killing a child that's already been born and one that's still in the womb.The crime is the same!
My baby is not even 1 yr. old and I'm pregnant again.I don't want kids so close together.'So the doctor said: 'Ok, and what do you want me to do?'She said: 'I want you to end my pregnancy, and I'm counting on your help with this.'The doctor thought for a little, and after some silence he said to the lady: 'I think I have a better solution for your problem. It's less dangerous for you, too.'She smiled, thinking that the doctor was going to accept her request.Then he continued: 'You see, in order for you not to have to take care of 2 babies at the same time, let's kill the one in your arms. This way, you could rest some before the other one is born.
If we're going to kill one of them, it doesn't matter which one it is.There would be no risk for your body if you chose the one in your arms.The lady was horrified and said: 'No doctor! How terrible! It's a crime to kill a child!'I agree', the doctor replied. 'But you seemed to be ok with it, so I thought maybe that was the best solution. The doctor smiled, realizing that he had made his point.
He convinced the mom that there is no difference in killing a child that's already been born and one that's still in the womb.The crime is the same!
Things are not always as they seem
Two travelling angels stopped to spend the night in the home of a wealthy family. The family was rude and refused to let the angels stay in the mansion's guestroom. Instead the angels were given a small space in the cold basement. As they made their bed on the hard floor, the older angel saw a hole in the wall and repaired it. When the younger angel asked why, the older angel replied, "Things aren't always what they seem."
The next night the pair came to rest at the house of a very poor, but very hospitable farmer and his wife. After sharing what little food they had the couple let the angels sleep in their bed where they could have a good night's rest. When the sun came up the next morning the angels found the farmer and his wife in tears. Their only cow, whose milk had been their sole income, lay dead in the field. The younger angel was infuriated and asked the older angel how could you have let this happen? The first man had everything, yet you helped him. The second family had little but was willing to share everything, and you let the cow die.
"Things aren't always what they seem," the older angel replied. "When we stayed in the basement of the mansion, I noticed there was gold stored in that hole in the wall. Since the owner was so obsessed with greed and unwilling to share his good fortune, I sealed the wall so he wouldn't find it."
"Then last night as we slept in the farmers bed, the angel of death came for his wife. I gave him the cow instead. Things aren't always what they seem."
Sometimes that is exactly what happens when things don't turn out the way they should. If you have faith, you just need to trust that every outcome is always to your advantage. You might not know it now but you will later.
The next night the pair came to rest at the house of a very poor, but very hospitable farmer and his wife. After sharing what little food they had the couple let the angels sleep in their bed where they could have a good night's rest. When the sun came up the next morning the angels found the farmer and his wife in tears. Their only cow, whose milk had been their sole income, lay dead in the field. The younger angel was infuriated and asked the older angel how could you have let this happen? The first man had everything, yet you helped him. The second family had little but was willing to share everything, and you let the cow die.
"Things aren't always what they seem," the older angel replied. "When we stayed in the basement of the mansion, I noticed there was gold stored in that hole in the wall. Since the owner was so obsessed with greed and unwilling to share his good fortune, I sealed the wall so he wouldn't find it."
"Then last night as we slept in the farmers bed, the angel of death came for his wife. I gave him the cow instead. Things aren't always what they seem."
Sometimes that is exactly what happens when things don't turn out the way they should. If you have faith, you just need to trust that every outcome is always to your advantage. You might not know it now but you will later.
May 14, 2010
With this I have more than enough
An investment banker was at the pier of a small coastal village when a small boat with just one fisherman docked. Inside the small boat were several large yellow fin tuna. The investment banker complimented the fisherman on the quality of his fish and asked how long it took to catch them?
The fisherman replied, "Only a little while." The investment banker then asked, "Why didn't you stay out longer and catch more fish?" The fisherman said, "With this I have more than enough to support my family's needs."
The investment banker then asked, "But what do you do with the rest of your time?" The fisherman said, "I sleep late, fish a little, play with my children, take siesta with my wife, stroll into the village each evening and spend time with my family, I have a full and busy life." The investment banker scoffed, "I am a Harvard MBA and could help you. You should spend more time fishing; and with the proceeds, buy a bigger boat: With the proceeds from the bigger boat you could buy several boats. Eventually you would have a fleet of fishing boats. Instead of selling your catch to a middleman you would sell directly to the processor; eventually opening your own cannery. You would control the product, processing and distribution. You would need to leave this small coastal fishing village and move to a big town and eventually to the the city where you will run your ever-expanding enterprise."
The fisherman asked, "But, how long will this all take?" To which the investment banker replied, "15 to 20 years." "But what then?" asked the fisherman. The investment banker laughed and said that's the best part. "When the time is right you would announce an IPO and sell your company stock to the public and become very rich, you would make millions." "Millions?...Then what?" The investment banker said, "Then you would retire. Move to a small coastal fishing village where you would sleep late, fish a little, play with your kids, take siesta with your wife, stroll to the village in the evenings and spend time with your family." The fisherman said, "Basically what I'm doing now."
A Walk by the River
Once there was a small house near a river bank. Three people lived in the house. A man his wife and his old father. The man was very happy with his wife and they had good life but his father was very old and sick and often was a trouble for them.
During day they had to serve him food and medicine and at night he used to cough up a lot. Making them not sleep properly. This routine kept on going for sometime.
One night the man and his wife discussed something in their room and then the man came out and asked his father to ride on his back.
The father asked "O my son where are you taking me to?"
The man replied "Dad! I want you to take out for a change since it's been long time you haven't seen the outside of the house".
The father was riding on back of his son tightly and the son started walking towards the river. The father thought his son would stop on edge of the river and let him enjoy the natural scene.
But the son entered into the river until he reached deep into the water, where it touched his chest.
The son was about to throw his father in the water that suddenly father asked his son to stop for a bit.
The son froze where he was.
The father said "O my son I know why and where you were going to take me, but before you throw me in the river I want to tell you something. The place where you are standing right now is exactly the place where I threw my father in the river. So please throw me in a little bit into deeper water, so when it comes your turn your son has to walk a little bit more...
"Thy Lord has decreed that you worship none but Him, and that you be kind to parents. Whether one or both of them attain old age in your life, say not to them a word of contempt, nor repel them, but address them in terms of honor. And out of kindness, lower to them the wing of humility, and say: My Lord! Bestow on them Thy Mercy even as they cherished me in childhood. Your Lord knows best what is in your hearts: If you do deeds of righteousness, verily He is Most Forgiving to those who turn to Him again and again (in true penitence)"
[surah al-Isra: 23]
During day they had to serve him food and medicine and at night he used to cough up a lot. Making them not sleep properly. This routine kept on going for sometime.
One night the man and his wife discussed something in their room and then the man came out and asked his father to ride on his back.
The father asked "O my son where are you taking me to?"
The man replied "Dad! I want you to take out for a change since it's been long time you haven't seen the outside of the house".
The father was riding on back of his son tightly and the son started walking towards the river. The father thought his son would stop on edge of the river and let him enjoy the natural scene.
But the son entered into the river until he reached deep into the water, where it touched his chest.
The son was about to throw his father in the water that suddenly father asked his son to stop for a bit.
The son froze where he was.
The father said "O my son I know why and where you were going to take me, but before you throw me in the river I want to tell you something. The place where you are standing right now is exactly the place where I threw my father in the river. So please throw me in a little bit into deeper water, so when it comes your turn your son has to walk a little bit more...
"Thy Lord has decreed that you worship none but Him, and that you be kind to parents. Whether one or both of them attain old age in your life, say not to them a word of contempt, nor repel them, but address them in terms of honor. And out of kindness, lower to them the wing of humility, and say: My Lord! Bestow on them Thy Mercy even as they cherished me in childhood. Your Lord knows best what is in your hearts: If you do deeds of righteousness, verily He is Most Forgiving to those who turn to Him again and again (in true penitence)"
[surah al-Isra: 23]
First Night Three Rotis Second night Two and Third night One
One of our pious predecessors once stopped over in a village during a journey. In those days travellers would stay in the masjid and the locals would invite the traveller for meals.
Hence when a resident offered to provide the Shaykh with food for the evening the Shaykh accepted. The villager brought three rotis and some food in the evening.
After eating that night, the Shaykh felt a very strong inclination towards performing good deeds. As a result he spent most of the night in prayers and when he slept he was blessed with seeing the Prophet sallallaahu ‘alayhi wasallam.
The Shaykh realised that it was either because of the blessing of the place he was currently at or the blessing of the food he had eaten that had enabled him to experience such a blessed night. Thus he decided to spend the next day in the village as well.
Upon seeing the Shaykh the villager again offered to provide dinner. This time however the villager brought two rotis. The Shaykh experienced the same thing on this night as well, thus he decided to spend a third day in the village.
The villager provided food for the Shaykh on the third day as well and again the Shaykh experienced an extremely spiritual night.
On the fourth day the villager said to the Shaykh that the right of the guest as mentioned in the hadeeeth is for three days only. Therefore I will not be able to provide for you today.
The Shaykh however was curious to understand the reason behind his experience of the last few nights.
Thus he asked the villager what he did for a living and why he had brought different quantities of rotis on the three days.
The villager explained that he was a woodcutter by trade and that he would earn enough in a day that would suffice for himself, his wife and his son.
He then explained that on the first day they all stayed hungry in order to entertain the Shaykh. On the second day his son could no longer tolerate the hunger so he kept one roti for him and gave two the Shaykh.
On the third day both his wife and son were in need so he gave them two rotis and gave one to the Shaykh.
Now on the fourth day he himself could not bear the hunger so he would have the keep the food for himself and his family. Thus he had to excuse himself from entertaining the Shaykh.
From this great incident we learn two important lessons. The first is the great blessings that lie in halaal income. And the second is the intense love and altruism that our pious predecessors had.”
Hence when a resident offered to provide the Shaykh with food for the evening the Shaykh accepted. The villager brought three rotis and some food in the evening.
After eating that night, the Shaykh felt a very strong inclination towards performing good deeds. As a result he spent most of the night in prayers and when he slept he was blessed with seeing the Prophet sallallaahu ‘alayhi wasallam.
The Shaykh realised that it was either because of the blessing of the place he was currently at or the blessing of the food he had eaten that had enabled him to experience such a blessed night. Thus he decided to spend the next day in the village as well.
Upon seeing the Shaykh the villager again offered to provide dinner. This time however the villager brought two rotis. The Shaykh experienced the same thing on this night as well, thus he decided to spend a third day in the village.
The villager provided food for the Shaykh on the third day as well and again the Shaykh experienced an extremely spiritual night.
On the fourth day the villager said to the Shaykh that the right of the guest as mentioned in the hadeeeth is for three days only. Therefore I will not be able to provide for you today.
The Shaykh however was curious to understand the reason behind his experience of the last few nights.
Thus he asked the villager what he did for a living and why he had brought different quantities of rotis on the three days.
The villager explained that he was a woodcutter by trade and that he would earn enough in a day that would suffice for himself, his wife and his son.
He then explained that on the first day they all stayed hungry in order to entertain the Shaykh. On the second day his son could no longer tolerate the hunger so he kept one roti for him and gave two the Shaykh.
On the third day both his wife and son were in need so he gave them two rotis and gave one to the Shaykh.
Now on the fourth day he himself could not bear the hunger so he would have the keep the food for himself and his family. Thus he had to excuse himself from entertaining the Shaykh.
From this great incident we learn two important lessons. The first is the great blessings that lie in halaal income. And the second is the intense love and altruism that our pious predecessors had.”
May 13, 2010
The scholar should praise God for having deprived him of the luxuries of this world away
Salmân al-Fârsî radhiyAllahu anhu said:
“There was a man who was given many of the luxuries of this world, and then they were taken away from him. But he continued to praise and thank Allâh until everything had been taken from him, even his bed. And then he still praised and thanked Allâh. Another man, who had also been given many of the luxuries of this world asked him, ‘What are you praising and thanking Allâh for?’
The man said, ‘I am praising and thanking Him for blessings which, if others asked me to give them to them in return for all that they have, I would never give them up.’ ‘What can they be?’ asked the second man. ‘Can’t you see?’ asked the first man. ‘I have my eyesight, my tongue, my hands, my feet…’”
Layth ibn Abî Burdah said:
‘When Allâh gathers people on the Day of Judgement, He will remind them of His blessings. One of His slaves will say: “Remind me of something,” and Allâh will say: “Remember when you faced such-and-such adversity, and you prayed to Me, so I relieved you of it. Remember when you were travelling in such and-such a place, and you asked Me to give you a travelling companion, and I did so… Remember when you asked for the hand of so-and-so the daughter of so-and-so, and others also asked for her hand, so I gave her to you to marry; and kept the others away.”
His slave will be standing before his Lord, Who will remind him of His many blessings.’” Then the narrator of this story (Layth) wept and said, “I hope that no one will stand before his Lord in this way, because the one who does so will be punished.” (i.e. if Allâh has to point out that which should be obvious, this is a sign of a person’s ingratitude, and he will be punished.)
A man of knowledge said:
“The blessing of Allâh to us in keeping the luxuries of this world away from us is greater than the blessing of that which he has given us, because Allah did not like His Prophet to have the luxuries of this world. So I prefer to live in the manner which Allâh preferred for His Prophet than to live a life which He disliked for him.”
Ibn Abi’d-Dunyâ said:
“It was narrated to me that some scholars said: ‘The scholar should praise Allâh for having deprived him of the luxuries of this life, in the same way that he should praise Him for what He has bestowed upon him. How can you compare the blessings and luxuries for which he will be accountable to the deprivation of luxuries which is a relief from being tested, and which keeps his mind free to worship and remember Allâh? So he should give thanks to Allâh for all of that.’”
Ibn Abi’d-Dunyâ mentioned that Dâwûd (peace be upon Him) asked Allâh: “What is the least of Your blessings?” Allâh revealed to him: “O Dâwûd, take a breath.” Dâwûd did so, and Allâh told him: “This is the least of My blessings on you.”
“There was a man who was given many of the luxuries of this world, and then they were taken away from him. But he continued to praise and thank Allâh until everything had been taken from him, even his bed. And then he still praised and thanked Allâh. Another man, who had also been given many of the luxuries of this world asked him, ‘What are you praising and thanking Allâh for?’
The man said, ‘I am praising and thanking Him for blessings which, if others asked me to give them to them in return for all that they have, I would never give them up.’ ‘What can they be?’ asked the second man. ‘Can’t you see?’ asked the first man. ‘I have my eyesight, my tongue, my hands, my feet…’”
Layth ibn Abî Burdah said:
‘When Allâh gathers people on the Day of Judgement, He will remind them of His blessings. One of His slaves will say: “Remind me of something,” and Allâh will say: “Remember when you faced such-and-such adversity, and you prayed to Me, so I relieved you of it. Remember when you were travelling in such and-such a place, and you asked Me to give you a travelling companion, and I did so… Remember when you asked for the hand of so-and-so the daughter of so-and-so, and others also asked for her hand, so I gave her to you to marry; and kept the others away.”
His slave will be standing before his Lord, Who will remind him of His many blessings.’” Then the narrator of this story (Layth) wept and said, “I hope that no one will stand before his Lord in this way, because the one who does so will be punished.” (i.e. if Allâh has to point out that which should be obvious, this is a sign of a person’s ingratitude, and he will be punished.)
A man of knowledge said:
“The blessing of Allâh to us in keeping the luxuries of this world away from us is greater than the blessing of that which he has given us, because Allah did not like His Prophet to have the luxuries of this world. So I prefer to live in the manner which Allâh preferred for His Prophet than to live a life which He disliked for him.”
Ibn Abi’d-Dunyâ said:
“It was narrated to me that some scholars said: ‘The scholar should praise Allâh for having deprived him of the luxuries of this life, in the same way that he should praise Him for what He has bestowed upon him. How can you compare the blessings and luxuries for which he will be accountable to the deprivation of luxuries which is a relief from being tested, and which keeps his mind free to worship and remember Allâh? So he should give thanks to Allâh for all of that.’”
Ibn Abi’d-Dunyâ mentioned that Dâwûd (peace be upon Him) asked Allâh: “What is the least of Your blessings?” Allâh revealed to him: “O Dâwûd, take a breath.” Dâwûd did so, and Allâh told him: “This is the least of My blessings on you.”
Hazrat Ibrahim (alaihis salaam) And the Old Man
In the Middle East there is a land known as Palestine. Long before, in this land there lived a very great prophet. Prophet is a messenger of Allah subhanahu wa ta`ala . He has been chosen by Allah subhanahu wa ta`ala Himself to teach people religion, good thoughts and good deeds. The name of this great prophet was Hazrat Ibrahim (alaihis salaam) . (He is also known as Abraham in the Bible). He had come to Palestine from Iraq.
Hazrat Ibrahim (alaihis salaam) was very fond of guests. He liked to invite guests to his house. He was good to travellers. He took them to his house and gave them food to eat and bed to sleep. This good quality of his is described in the Qur'an.
Every morning Hazrat Ibrahim (alaihis salaam) stood by the main road near his house and waited for travellers to pass. As soon he saw them he invited them to his house to be his guests. Hazrat Ibrahim (alaihis salaam) liked this good deed very much. It pleased him to make other people happy and comfortable. Thus, Hazrat Ibrahim (alaihis salaam) would everyday bring home one guest at least. If he came across no traveller even for a day he would become unhappy. Without having a guest, he would not touch food himself.
Once it so happened that no traveller passed that way for three days running. This, naturally, upset Hazrat Ibrahim (alaihis salaam) . It made him sad. Without having a guest on his table he would not eat. Each morning Hazrat Ibrahim (alaihis salaam) went to the main road hopefully. He would strain his eyes far away to the horizon. Yet no traveller was to be seen. Each evening he would return to his home disappointed.
Three days passed. One morning an old man appeared on a camel. Hazrat Ibrahim (alaihis salaam) was happy. He invited the old man to his home to eat with him The old man accepted the invitation.
In the house they set to eat. Hazrat Ibrahim recited "Bismillah" before taking the food, but the old man did not say anything. Hazrat Ibrahim (alaihis salaam) asked why he did not remember Allah subhanahu wa ta`ala before taking his meal. Was not Allah our Creator, our Nourisher and our Master? Was it not proper to remember Him before partaking of the food provided by Him?
The old man said that it was not the custom in his religion. Hazrat Ibrahim (alaihis salaam) asked him what his religion was. He said that he was one of those who worship fire.
Hazrat Ibrahim (alaihis salaam) was very much annoyed and turned the old man out.
As soon as the old man went away, the angel Hazrat Jibrail (alaihis salaam) came to Hazrat Ibrahim (alaihis salaam) , from Allah subhanahu wa ta`ala . Hazrat Jibrail (alaihis salaam) told Hazrat Ibrahim (alaihis salaam) that Allah subhanahu wa ta`ala had been feeding this unbeliever person for seventy years. Could not Hazrat Ibrahim (alaihis salaam) tolerate him for even one meal! Hazrat Ibrahim (alaihis salaam) felt very sorry for this. He immediately ran after the old man. Finally he reached him and persuaded him to return to his house to have food together. He finally succeeded in getting the old man to his home.
Moral:-
However good you may be, it does not give you right to judge other persons.
You should always seek the forgiveness and pleasure of God.
Always entertain and please a guest.
Hazrat Ibrahim (alaihis salaam) was very fond of guests. He liked to invite guests to his house. He was good to travellers. He took them to his house and gave them food to eat and bed to sleep. This good quality of his is described in the Qur'an.
Every morning Hazrat Ibrahim (alaihis salaam) stood by the main road near his house and waited for travellers to pass. As soon he saw them he invited them to his house to be his guests. Hazrat Ibrahim (alaihis salaam) liked this good deed very much. It pleased him to make other people happy and comfortable. Thus, Hazrat Ibrahim (alaihis salaam) would everyday bring home one guest at least. If he came across no traveller even for a day he would become unhappy. Without having a guest, he would not touch food himself.
Once it so happened that no traveller passed that way for three days running. This, naturally, upset Hazrat Ibrahim (alaihis salaam) . It made him sad. Without having a guest on his table he would not eat. Each morning Hazrat Ibrahim (alaihis salaam) went to the main road hopefully. He would strain his eyes far away to the horizon. Yet no traveller was to be seen. Each evening he would return to his home disappointed.
Three days passed. One morning an old man appeared on a camel. Hazrat Ibrahim (alaihis salaam) was happy. He invited the old man to his home to eat with him The old man accepted the invitation.
In the house they set to eat. Hazrat Ibrahim recited "Bismillah" before taking the food, but the old man did not say anything. Hazrat Ibrahim (alaihis salaam) asked why he did not remember Allah subhanahu wa ta`ala before taking his meal. Was not Allah our Creator, our Nourisher and our Master? Was it not proper to remember Him before partaking of the food provided by Him?
The old man said that it was not the custom in his religion. Hazrat Ibrahim (alaihis salaam) asked him what his religion was. He said that he was one of those who worship fire.
Hazrat Ibrahim (alaihis salaam) was very much annoyed and turned the old man out.
As soon as the old man went away, the angel Hazrat Jibrail (alaihis salaam) came to Hazrat Ibrahim (alaihis salaam) , from Allah subhanahu wa ta`ala . Hazrat Jibrail (alaihis salaam) told Hazrat Ibrahim (alaihis salaam) that Allah subhanahu wa ta`ala had been feeding this unbeliever person for seventy years. Could not Hazrat Ibrahim (alaihis salaam) tolerate him for even one meal! Hazrat Ibrahim (alaihis salaam) felt very sorry for this. He immediately ran after the old man. Finally he reached him and persuaded him to return to his house to have food together. He finally succeeded in getting the old man to his home.
Moral:-
However good you may be, it does not give you right to judge other persons.
You should always seek the forgiveness and pleasure of God.
Always entertain and please a guest.
One Dirham Stops a Fight
There was once a good man who had just sold the clothe he had woven. He went to buy flour so his wife and him would have something to eat that night. On his way, he heard arguing and saw two men fighting. They were about to start punching each other. When he asked them the reason they were fighting they told him it was all over one dirham (1). The good man gave them the only dirham he had wanting to do well and to avoid a fight.
When he returned home to his wife he told her what happened. She did not feel sorry for herself or blame him for what he did; rather she was kindhearted like her husband. She gathered some of the things they had in the house and gave them to him so that he could sell them at the marketplace. He spent the rest of the day trying to sell the items, but no one would buy them. On his way home, he saw a fisherman who had a fish that no one would buy from him. The fisherman and the good man exchanged their belongings and each went his own way.
The man returned home with his fish and gave it to his wife to clean and cook. They were both very hungry. When his wife cut the fish to clean its insides she saw a pearl the size of a bird’s egg. When she showed it to her husband he was astonished because he had never seen anything like it.
The man rushed to one of his jeweler friends. His friend looked at the pearl for a long time, and then he said, “I will buy it from you for 40,000 Dirhams. If you want I will give you the money now. But if you want more than what I am offering, go to this person I know, (and told him the name of that person), he will give you more that I have offered."
The good man took the rare pearl and went to the second jeweler. The jeweler took one look at the pearl and knew that it was of rare quality. He said, “I will buy the pearl from you for 80,000 Dirhams. If you want more then go to this person, he will give you more.”
The good man took his precious pearl and went to the next jeweler. As soon as the jeweler saw it his mouth hung open in amazement and he said, “I will buy it from you for 120,000 Dirhams. You will not find anyone who will pay you more than that.” So the good man agreed to sell the pearl and took the money from the jeweler.
The man carried the money back home in 12 bags. Each bag had 10,000 dirhams in it. When he reached his house he found a poor man/beggar standing at the door asking for help in finding his needs. The good man brought the poor man in and told him how he got the money he had. He then said to the poor man, “Take six of the bags.” The poor man gladly took six bags and left. A few minutes later the poor man returned and said, “I am not poor rather I am an angel whom Allah sent to you. Because of that one dirham you gave seeking the reward, Allah has granted you 20 Qirats (2), this is one of the quirats and 19 others are left or you.
(1) The dirham is silver coin, used in the past.
(2) Qirat is a unit of weight for gold.
When he returned home to his wife he told her what happened. She did not feel sorry for herself or blame him for what he did; rather she was kindhearted like her husband. She gathered some of the things they had in the house and gave them to him so that he could sell them at the marketplace. He spent the rest of the day trying to sell the items, but no one would buy them. On his way home, he saw a fisherman who had a fish that no one would buy from him. The fisherman and the good man exchanged their belongings and each went his own way.
The man returned home with his fish and gave it to his wife to clean and cook. They were both very hungry. When his wife cut the fish to clean its insides she saw a pearl the size of a bird’s egg. When she showed it to her husband he was astonished because he had never seen anything like it.
The man rushed to one of his jeweler friends. His friend looked at the pearl for a long time, and then he said, “I will buy it from you for 40,000 Dirhams. If you want I will give you the money now. But if you want more than what I am offering, go to this person I know, (and told him the name of that person), he will give you more that I have offered."
The good man took the rare pearl and went to the second jeweler. The jeweler took one look at the pearl and knew that it was of rare quality. He said, “I will buy the pearl from you for 80,000 Dirhams. If you want more then go to this person, he will give you more.”
The good man took his precious pearl and went to the next jeweler. As soon as the jeweler saw it his mouth hung open in amazement and he said, “I will buy it from you for 120,000 Dirhams. You will not find anyone who will pay you more than that.” So the good man agreed to sell the pearl and took the money from the jeweler.
The man carried the money back home in 12 bags. Each bag had 10,000 dirhams in it. When he reached his house he found a poor man/beggar standing at the door asking for help in finding his needs. The good man brought the poor man in and told him how he got the money he had. He then said to the poor man, “Take six of the bags.” The poor man gladly took six bags and left. A few minutes later the poor man returned and said, “I am not poor rather I am an angel whom Allah sent to you. Because of that one dirham you gave seeking the reward, Allah has granted you 20 Qirats (2), this is one of the quirats and 19 others are left or you.
(1) The dirham is silver coin, used in the past.
(2) Qirat is a unit of weight for gold.
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